5 Ways to Take Your (and Your Partner's) O to the Next Level

Finally, it’s date night. You’ve lit the candles, turned up the tunes, and wiggled into your favorite little Fleur number to wiggle out of later. But if you’re planning to see out the rest of the evening with the same ol’ song and dance, well, we think it’s time to shake things up a bit. While there’s something to be said about knowing just what and how your partner likes it when getting intimate (and vice versa), repeat routines can make those boudoir sessions veer into boring territory faster than you know it. So if you want to keep your lovin’ fun and fresh, and take your *and* your boo’s big O up a few notches while you’re at it, try adding these sexy tips and tricks to the mix.

1. Amp Up Your Arousal

If you really want to light a fire, it’s best to get warmed up first. Pouring hot wax on each other not quite your thing? Simply slather on some arousal oil to start getting your juices flowing. Kick things off with an intimate massage sesh that teases every erogenous zone with a suggestive touch, and allow each other to embrace the surface sensations before going any deeper – if you catch our drift. With Fleur favorites like Foria’s Intimacy Oil and Playground’s Mood Maker, you can let the formulas’ natural botanicals get to work enhancing your pleasure for the ultimate foreplay – and replay – action.

2. Act It Out

As Shakespeare once said, “all the world’s a stage,” and that includes the space between your sheets. If you really want to bring the drama the next time you and your boo put on a show for two, try switching up the starring roles and taking turns in the spotlight. Whether that means slipping into a sexy new persona (like a cheeky French maid who says “oui!” to it all) or reversing your usual acts of dominance and submission, a little bit of roleplay can go a long way to freshen up your act. Trust us, your evening will end with a passionate standing O-vation from (and for) the both of you.

3. Ouvert For Business

Experimentation is key if you’re hoping to discover new paths to climax, and in our opinion, that means nothing should be off limits. If you and your lover have yet to enjoy some booty action, it might be time to give it a try. After all, it opens up a whole new world of potential pleasure sensors. No matter your gender, anal stimulation by way of touching, licking, pressure, or plugging can awaken a wonderland of erotic nerve endings and provide you both with fresh new sensations. And if you really want to go all in (in the most literal sense), you can achieve orgasm by hitting the P-Spot (in men) or A-Spot (in women). Yep, there’s more down there than just the G…and it’s totally worth exploring.

4. Add A New Play Thing To The Mix

When you’ve worn out all your usual go-tos, take that as an excuse to update your pleasure chest. We mean, what’s more exciting than unwrapping a new toy — and dreaming up all the naughty ways you’re gonna use it later? Maybe you’re looking to pump up the power of your typical vibe, or switch up the shape and suction that you’ve grown used to. In either case, adding a fresh and fun new play thing into your lineup pretty much promises a brand new O, especially if you plan on taking it for a spin with your beau. We suggest trying out the delightfully infamous Lelo Tiani 3 that puts one partner in the driver’s seat and takes the other for a wild ride.

5. Sharpen Their Senses

Take away one sense to sharpen all the rest, and they’re guaranteed to experience a rush of intensely spine-tingling sensations they won’t soon forget. Tie up their hands, put on a blindfold, or give ‘em a little gag – if they can’t touch, look, or taste while you get down and give ‘em the business, they’ll have no choice but to turn things up elsewhere to really feel the love. Kiss, touch, spank, and tease (with the help of a feather tickler or a playful paddle, perhaps?) until you take them over the edge in an oh-so-explosive finale that’ll have them feeling everything, everywhere, all at once — and we’re not talking about the movie.