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5 Ways to Take Your (and Your Partner's) O to the Next Level

Finally, it’s date night. You’ve lit the candles, turned up the tunes, and wiggled into your favorite little Fleur number to wiggle out of later. But if you’re planning to see out the rest of the evening with the same ol’ song and dance, well, we think it’s time to shake things up a bit. While there’s something to be said about knowing just what and how your partner likes it when getting intimate (and vice versa), repeat routines can make those boudoir sessions veer into boring territory faster than you know it. So if you want to keep your lovin’ fun and fresh, and take your *and* your boo’s big O up a few notches while you’re at it, try adding these sexy tips and tricks to the mix.

1. Amp Up Your Arousal

If you really want to light a fire, it’s best to get warmed up first. Pouring hot wax on each other not quite your thing? Simply slather on some arousal oil to start getting your juices flowing. Kick things off with an intimate massage sesh that teases every erogenous zone with a suggestive touch, and allow each other to embrace the surface sensations before going any deeper – if you catch our drift. With Fleur favorites like Foria’s Intimacy Oil and Playground’s Mood Maker, you can let the formulas’ natural botanicals get to work enhancing your pleasure for the ultimate foreplay – and replay – action.

2. Act It Out

As Shakespeare once said, “all the world’s a stage,” and that includes the space between your sheets. If you really want to bring the drama the next time you and your boo put on a show for two, try switching up the starring roles and taking turns in the spotlight. Whether that means slipping into a sexy new persona (like a cheeky French maid who says “oui!” to it all) or reversing your usual acts of dominance and submission, a little bit of roleplay can go a long way to freshen up your act. Trust us, your evening will end with a passionate standing O-vation from (and for) the both of you.