Fleur’s Five Pleasure Resolutions to Embrace in 2025

You’ve toasted your bubbly and danced the night away, but once the haze of champagne begins to fizzle, the start of a new year is all about locking into some new goals. Now, while everyone has their fair share of wellness, career, and money resolutions to tackle, Fleur’s here to remind you not to forget to take your pleasure seriously. After all, the better you feel in the boudoir, the better you feel everywhere else. From amping up your partner play to indulging in new forms of self-love, here are five resolutions to take into the bedroom – and beyond – in 2025.

Shake Up Your Dating Roster

If you’ve been single and mingling for a while now but constantly find yourself on first dates that feel like a bad reality show rerun, it’s time to switch up your swiping habits in 2025. Sure, it might be hard to break away from the “type” you’ve cast in the rom-com of your imagination, but sometimes the most sizzling sparks fly from the most unexpected of places – and as we all know, opposites can attract in more ways than one. Of course, you’ll never know which pleasantly surprising lover is waiting around the corner unless you widen your horizons and share your number with someone totally new.

Cozy Up to the Camera

You’ll never regret taking the time to document your hotness. This year, plan to turn some of your, ahem, “self-care” evenings into an excuse for a sultry photo shoot that you can admire for many new years to come. Slick on your favorite lipstick, don a barely-there ensemble that makes you feel like a million bucks, and get ready for your closeup. Snap some selfies to share with someone special, or press record on your own solo pleasure sesh to lock away for your eyes only. Either way, seeing yourself in all your glory, from décolletage to derrière, is a surefire way to tap into some self-seduction and make your confidence levels soar.

Make Your Date Nights More Daring

If “dinner, movie, PJs, sleep” sounds a lot like your date nights as of late, make 2025 the year you and your partner get more adventurous in all the ways you haven’t dared to before. To add some spice to your long-term love life, take your romps up a notch by getting a little – or a lot – more daring, both in *and* out of the bedroom. Perhaps you’ve always wondered what it would be like to have a third, or maybe you have a craving for some leather, whips, and chains. From introducing new toys (or people) between the sheets to stepping into a new persona for a playfully flirtatious role play sesh out in the open, you and your boo have a slew of options when it comes to reviving your romance.

Indulge in Some Fresh Fantasies

Tired of the same ol’ solo routine? There’s nothing holding you back from experiencing the magic of the imaginative. This year, open yourself up to fresh new forms of fantasy and allow yourself to get lost in some sensual storylines you could only dream of. Whether you press play on a pulse-racing podcast or audiobook, or immerse yourself in the pages of a spine-tingling fairy tale for grownups, exploring the vast world of erotica can work wonders to unlock secret desires and hidden fancies that, once discovered, can then be brought to life and indulged in the real world.

Feel Your Sexiest Every Day

Why save your sexy for special occasions? In 2025, take a page from Fleur and make it a point to flex your femme fatale energy on the daily. Hey, there’s no time like the present to make yourself feel like the powerful vixen that you are. From starting your mornings with a mind-blowing O to dressing up in your most scandalous underpinnings even just to go into the office, giving yourself a cheeky little secret to keep close to your chest can make even the most mundane days feel electrifying, and give you an alluring glow that shines from the inside out. The result? The confidence to hold a stranger’s gaze or finally slide into your crush’s DMs. Trust, you’ll thank us by springtime.