Vibe Out With Vibrators
When it comes to the most familiar and popular variety of in-bedroom devices – that would be vibrators, duh – you don’t have to go to any extremes in order to achieve an extreme orgasm.
“Sex toys don’t have to be used internally,” adds Dr. Jenn. “I would suggest starting with an external vibrator. It could be something that fits in the palm of your hand and gives good clitoral stimulation. Vibrators used on the clitoris can be a delightful awakening for women wanting orgasms.”
Bullets and clitoris suction toys can deliver electrifying results without insertion. But if you prefer a more penetrative experience, it’s worth experimenting with an internal vibrator, especially on your own at first. “Solo play is a really good information gathering exercise,” says Dr. Jenn. “Users get to figure out pressure, size, speed of vibration, or depth of penetration in a no-pressure situation. They get to move at their own pace and understand what their body really responds to without the pressure of a partner.”
Of course, after you take your pleasure into your own hands (quite literally), you can then confidently hand things over to your partner and be able to tell them exactly what you’re looking for.